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3 Reasons People Don’t Heal and What You Can Do!

What is it that blocks so many from healing? There are three key factors keeping you stuck.

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3 Reasons People Don't Heal and What You Can Do!

Posted by Dr. Kim D'Eramo on Wednesday, September 13, 2017

  1. OUR WAY OF BEING. Our state of being creates a chemical imprint. When we live in fear and try to manage our illness from a state of fight or flight we tax our bodies with stress hormones. When we try to “fix” the body with our mind, rather than surrendering to the heart, we prevent healing. We must allow something new to come in, and “let go” of trying to fix the problem so that it can resolve.
  2. VICTIM MENTALITY: Living in a state of mind where you feel as if life is happening to you. Feeling like nothing you do is working or helping keeps you stuck on this pattern of seeing yourself and the world. Until we resolve what is actually happening within us, we won’t be able to let go and allow something new to come in.
  3. LIVING IN A SPACE OF “NOT GOOD ENOUGH”: When we feel less about ourselves and focus our attention on others needs more than our own, we can’t heal. When you feel that you are not enough or don’t matter, your body can’t get what it needs, so you block healing.

When we allow our bodies to receive what they need, not only does our health begin to flourish, those around us get nurtured more. When we nurture ourselves first, all those other things always flourish as a result.

Hope you like the video!

-Dr. Kim

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  1. How does one “let go”? Especially when there are responsibilities and/or one obviously feel uncomfortable physically and emotionally?

  2. I so need your help but am not able to spend thousands of dollars. I did go through your short course. I have been sick as long as I can remember. I am a successful woman. Have been to every Dr possible along with alternative medicine drs. I use essential oils, I do yoga, have a very healthy diet. Do tapping. When I say that I have done everything, I mean it. I literally have a reactive response to everything I eat. I believe I have candida and have for years, although I eat a great diet for candida and have taken a ton of supplements. Can’t fight it. I really am at my wits end. Not sure if you are able to help me without me having to spend a ton of dollars yet again.. Years on anxiety/depression med and reflux med. 🙁

  3. Great information. Thank you for all you do! I was wondering if you could comment on how to deal with anxiety about having insomnia. Thanks again!

    • Hi Celia. We are currently offering a special for the month of November for The MindBody Solution for Anxiety program. This would be a great resource to help you.

      Here is the link to learn more:

  4. I am not close My family to my brothers and sisters. I’m not sure if my husband loves me, even though he does everything for me he thinks I need. I don’t have many friends and don’t see many people because of where we live. My family doesn’t want to talk to my husband and I have no clue why. They act as if they don’t want to know him.

  5. Congratulations! Also thank you for the video.

  6. Thank you so much for what you’re doing. I love it.
    I understand everything you say completeley and I’d like to stop struggling so hard. But I have a question: I have a heavy metal problem and I’m searching intensily how to detox best. Would that be possible with the mind/body technique ?
    Lots of love

  7. Fabulous. This is really valuable information, and I LOVE how you phrase and describe things. It really makes so much sense. Much gratitude. And congratulations on your pregnancy!

    • Hi Helen! Thank you so much! Sending love!

    • I can’t hear anything. I went to youtube and played a video so my speakers are on.????

    • XO. Thank you very much Helen!


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